"The Trauma of Love"

“The Trauma of Love”


When you experienced a break up just know that it’s important to heal before pursuing other relationships.

Think of being hurt by love as being a solider wounded in battle.

If you were a solider wounded in battle your instinct is to survive, but the choices that you make at your weakened state could kill you.

Can you imagine being a wounded soldier in the woods who is being pursued by stalkers, attackers, or any one who could hurt you?

Even if the pursuer don’t intend to cause you harm, they could.

You’re in the woods starving and in need of help. You body feels like it’s shutting down and your life force is being drained as if you are bleeding to death. You are in need of medical attention. You need to heal from the trauma (love pain and drama) that has just consumed you.

If you decide to turn around and take on your pursuer in your weakened state you could die or suffer more devastation.

If you decide to keep it moving you may survive to fight another day.

Fear doesn’t move you, it’s the will to survive and fight another day that empowers you.

If you are love sick or hurt by love, you must heal first before pursuing other relationships. You must heal before you decide to give it another try or decide to die trying. You must be at peace with yourself in order to bring peace to any relationship.

If you turn around to address what is causing the pain, you leave yourself open to take another bullet to the chest. If you decide to keep moving you may live to love another day. You may decide you don’t want to love another day.

You may decide to open other windows of opportunity for other people or things. Another Window of choice, will always present itself to you. Weather the choices that you make are ideal for you or not.

It’s the nature and balance of life and the way things are. You will always have choices.

I advise you to keep it moving. Find yourself. Become a better person within yourself and leave the pursuers in the dust. Once you have healed, you will be an affordable opponent.

You will be able to take on anything that life throws your way.

Preezie, Artist, Songwriter, & Producer.